Anchoring in Love: Finding Your Center Amidst Chaos

Goodness, the world is asking a lot of us.  How are you doing through it all?

If you are feeling activated or triggered by global events or by the noise and chaos surrounding us, you are not alone.

Can you take a moment to pause, to sit in stillness and find your breath?  Can you feel the life force in your body, the frequency of love vibrating through every cell of your being?

Love is the most powerful force on this planet. 

Much of what we are seeing in the news and media is activating a trauma response in many people, keeping us stuck in a dysregulated nervous system. Survival.

Now is the time to reach for the ever-present light within you.

We are far greater, stronger, more powerful when we’re united by the golden thread that connects us all. Love. Light. Consciousness.

The world is delivering some heavy lessons. This is why we must take the time to anchor into our center and surrender.

Our center point is where we remember that we’re both human and divine, that we’re okay, that we’re safe, that we’re alive, breathing.

Our center point is where we remember that we’re not alone, that we’re a part of a whole, the one. Where we drop into our humanity, and our divinity at the same time.

When we’re disconnected from our center, we’re forced to function and project from the past and future.  From old stories and past conditioning rather than the present moment.

Our center brings us home, allows us to melt into the present, and reminds us of our sovereignty.

This is where the alchemy lies.  In this exact moment. From the center point of our hearts. Where we are safe to be both human and divine.

Hold and nurture this knowing.

It’s all within, at your center, in your heart.

I invite you to explore the possibilities with me as your guide. Click here to view my list of services or book a free clarity call.

 

The Role of Spiritual Psychology in Personal Growth

 

Spiritual Psychology is the blending of science and spirituality to create meaningful relationships and live in harmony with oneself and the world.

I often feel curious about people and their values. I find patterns in people through the organized process of observing values in others. 

When people show up at my proverbial door it’s because simply put, they are out of alignment with their values which is causing them distress, dysfunction or disharmony.

The people who are drawn to the work I do have a value around growth and evolution. They don’t want to find temporary relief, rather they seek fundamental change. And they are willing to do what is required to achieve it.

After over a decade of doing this work, I have observed my most successful clients have something in common with my own values and they leverage my values, experience and expertise in identifying behavioral patterns and working to swiftly transform them at the root.

These clients are aligned with an openness, a devotion, a connection to a field of energy, and a connection within themselves, a higher power, a commitment to their soul’s progress, a willingness and ability to think beyond their current circumstances.

All change and progress exist in the unknown, beyond our current level of consciousness. 

The secret sauce is embracing the unknown. The truth is, if smart people knew how to solve their own challenges, they would do it. We must admit to what we do not know. We must welcome a greater knowing, and dive fearlessly into it.

 

There is opportunity in the surrender, the

powers greater than us, the mentor who has

walked this weary path of life and fully

welcomed it, Consciously.

We cannot change anything we deny or defend.

We cannot transform anything we are 

unconsciously perpetuating.

We must welcome full awareness and step boldly

into the unknown.

 

Clients who do well with me are willing to take a leap of faith into the unknown, to try new things to heal which venture beyond the conscious mind, self limitation, habits, compensatory strategies, victimhood and the traditional standard constructs of a psychological framework.

All change lives beyond these realms, into the infinite.

We must reach beyond our minds, our emotions, and our behaviors into the unseen realms, of our spiritual Self, our energy systems, the fields of consciousness and containers in and around us.

Clients who thrive are those who inhabit a value not just for science but also for spirituality.

 

What does this emergent concept of Spiritual Psychology mean? 

 

To me, spiritual psychology is not a reference to any religion. But rather it is far more comprehensive than that. (Which is why I work with people from all cultures, faiths, and religious dogmas).

Spiritual Psychology bridges science and spirit. Spiritual psychology is about Conscious relationships.

The relationship with Self, others, Creator, Earth, to the future, to the past, and to our harmony with all these things NOW.

Therefore, it is integral that we know our true values within all these meaningful relationships so we may live in harmony with ourselves. 

And the deepest truth of our spirituality is not merely scientific: biology, psychology and sociology, but it is essential we understand our stories and beliefs because they represent the meaning of our life, our spiritual Self, in its most exalted form.

I had the privilege to travel to the GaiaSphere headquarters in Colorado to attend an intensive training on the Science of Resilience with two of my mentors, and industry greats; Dr. Bruce Lipton, Harvard Biologist and stem cell researcher using quantum physics, and Gregg Braden, geologists and expert researcher of Ancient Civilizations and codes.

I could share much about the training, but what I will share stood out above all else – these two men are unapologetically themselves. 

They are not limited by their industry standards or expectations to conform. They dare to stretch beyond the norm (who wants to be normal anyway), to explore truly novel and enlightened concepts, truths and Consciousnesses beyond the standard. 

It is evident in the essence of who they both are, respectively, they live in joy, gratitude, generosity, high frequency growth, infinite intelligence, and brilliant awareness. They are seekers.

You know those people who just radiate light? Who feel luminous to be in their presence? Who lift the vibration of the entire atmosphere? These two do that effortlessly. It’s not a persona, it’s a truism.

How do they do this in such an uplifting way? 

They live in alignment with their values. Not just their linear scientific minds, but they blend that intelligence with inspiration by also inhabiting their spiritual selves. The two parts don’t work as powerfully without the other. They are complementary parts. Both essential. 

We are most wise when we recognize we are limited by what we know.

We must forget what we remember so that we may remember who we are: Spirits, having a human experience.

Science helps us understand how we can use our minds to override our biological genome and untangle ourselves from the belief that we are predisposed to suffering.

The new sciences of epigenetics and quantum mechanics recognize the important role of the invisible fields in controlling life, which includes the thoughts and energies that contribute to our reality. 

If it is true (and it is), that we are the source of our suffering, then that is actually really good news. It means then that we can be the source of our liberation.

This new awareness changes our old worldview. We now know that we control our genes and our entire lives.

We are not limited.  We are powerful.

We must be able to engage our personal power, through intuition, and Consciousness in order to experience the things we long for.

This is how life begins to re-organize around us, and our unique vision can finally come into focus.

I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling especially inspired to share impact with eager souls ready to glow in their own brightest light. In my practice I blend science and spirituality and stretch you into the unknown. 

If this work aligns with you, or even if you’re curious to try something new to heal, it would be my great honor and joy to share these unique tools of quantum healing and Conscious psychology which will change the way you interface with the world and create a life you truly enjoy living.

Through my work, I offer a container of deep individual healing, along with guidance in how to integrate these new awarenesses in practical and real ways in your life for your specific path and purpose.

I invite you to explore the possibilities with me as your guide. Click here to view my list of services or book a free clarity call.

The Sacred Journey of Becoming

 

I believe that we each enter this life with a very specific blueprint to fulfill in this timeline as a spark of the Divine.

Are you aware of your blueprint design? It’s the meaning of your life here: your purpose, your pathway, your karma, your contracts, your connections, and your enlightenment.

When we are able to truly perceive our self, our longings and deepest desires through the eyes of a Divine Intelligence, we are able to see more clearly our unique pathway and discern the essential steps, resources and guidance needed to proceed on our personal journey toward fulfillment. 

The ability to self-witness and thereby access our own personal power helps us to play a bigger role in the healing of ourselves, our loved ones and to contribute to the Collective Consciousness.

When we learn to shift at the subconscious level, transmuting imprints from the past, our external world begins to look different and opportunities arise which were invisible to us before. 
Opportunity unfolds.
The invisible made transparent. We can see ourselves, and the world around us with Eagle medicine – clear objective sight.

Commitment to the healing of our woundedness opens a gateway to shifts at a deep level.  This is when the fragmented parts within our internal landscape begin to reorganize and provide fresh, luminous perspectives to come into focus within our external world. We gain clear insight into ourselves. We commune with the knowing being within. 

Life does not happen to us. Rather, life happens through us. This is one of the universal laws to befriend.

The end of suffering depends on knowing who we absolutely are.  When our internal reference point is our true Self, we gain the ability to fulfill our highest potential. Trust fully your longings and desires are the guiding posts. Follow them wholesomely and wholeheartedly.

Be in the awareness of your becoming.

It is when we are truly embodying our Soul’s desires – (which in truth is in opposition to our impulses) – that life opens to us and we can move more freely in tandem with our Sacred Self.

At your core you are a beautiful enigma. Your essence is full of magic and mystery.  It is fearless, it’s wild, it’s honest, it is free.

The power to change your life comes from within.  All healing and creation starts from understanding the field of energies in and around you which are in the process of transforming your life. This clue will help inform you as to what is trying to emerge from your current life’s situation — and how to engage with that dynamic process optimally.

From a state of Conscious awareness, have faith that the chaotic activity in your outer world will never overshadow the energy field of your true wholeness.

Understandably, it takes a lot of courage to begin this sacred journey, but when you are devoted to your true path, alignment is your promised reward. The holy grail to behold.

I too am devoted to your healing.

It is through intuitive guidance that I am able to offer your magnificent unfolding, to help you understand your unique pathway to healing and to reveal the wise truth that exists within which is yearning to be revealed.

When you organize your inner world, you can trust your outer world will reflect a brilliant coherence back to you as a meaningful hologram of radiant love.

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Miracles of Love

May grace guide your

journey. Lighting your path

with endless courage,

tenderness and joy.

 

Happy New Year sweet friend!

The Gregorian calendar dictates there is a cycle of new beginnings in January, with the new year. 

I don’t know about you, but I am feeling the revitalization of energy unfolding after an intense holiday season. 

In my family, we celebrate Christmas. And candidly, I adore this time of year, the spirit of connection, celebration of tradition and festivity feels warm and nostalgic for me. 

Showing up in love and support, no matter the circumstances. Come what may.

This experience, and orientation to life provides tremendous comfort for me. I’ve been fortunate to both give and receive from this virtue and benefit from healing power generated through living in this way. 

We can’t control what happens in life but we do have power over how we respond.

My heart is whole knowing I am loving, and I am loved. We are the generators of this love – always.

When we traverse the dark and difficult places in life – and in ourselves – sometimes the simplest gesture of loving generosity can help us remember that another experience is possible. 

It may come in the form of a loving note from a friend, a rainbow after a storm, a hummingbird visit, an inspired session with a healer, the nudges and cuddles from a furry friend attuning to our emotions, a burst of sunlight through the clouds, a kindness from a stranger in the grocery store, or the words of a poet or author in the book on our nightside table.

Allow yourself to witness the small, sweet miracles that sparkle through the darkness. Allow yourself to be the miracle for another.

How worthy is this time spent.

In this new year, I hope we can all be a light for another and allow others to be a light for us when we need it. 

Let’s embrace moments of joy, let’s create laughter, and deeply attune to ourselves and another in supportive kindness. 

Let’s observe what is good and soft. Let us offer compassion through our being-ness.

 

Together, we can make this a beautiful life.
My wishes for you in this coming year are infinite with beauty and wholeness. 
May you feel the loving vibration that you are.

 

And, if I may offer my being as a loving presence to you at any point, it would be my great honor.  Click here to view my list of services or book a free clarity call.

 

Birthing a New World

 

Healing is a slow, steady process.  It is complex and nonlinear.  It takes as long as it takes, and most of the time that is much longer than we hoped it would be.

But like all things in nature, there is a mysterious intelligence to our healing process. And if we trust it, shed what is no longer serving us, and then allow the natural evolution of a new bud to flower in its perfect time without force, we just may find ourselves transformed again and again.

We must trust the great mystery in this miraculous process.⁣

And although many of us hear the call of our inner desires and dreams, it is often difficult to find the path forward to our own awakening.

Surrendering to the great mystery opens you to the ultimate possibility of your life. It awakens the sleeping phoenix inside of you where unimaginable possibilities await.

This is when you uncover your true power and gifts and are able to find meaning in your past trauma. This is when you begin to believe in yourself again and that is when you become powerful beyond belief.

Each of us are being called to use

Our own personal transformation

To help transform the world

Around us. Collectively we

Continue to journey through what

Feels like a harsh awakening.

 

Perhaps the question is, are we willing to stay open enough to let those old, protective ways of being die in order for a new, deeper connection (which is what healing really is) that is built on more stable, steady, loving, nourishing ground for all?

Do you want to have a life with more peace and balance or whatever it is that you might value in terms of an energy consciousness?

We need to become more conscious about where we are out of balance. Why?  Because our soul’s desire is to be in alignment with who we really are.  

That means getting rid of the layers of old constructs and stories that we’ve absorbed or inherited and identifying what really is our true story.

If we were consciously creating that which is of our highest making, what would that look like?  How would we be inside our bodies?

What is the imprint that we are leaving energetically on the world and the people around us? 

Are we in alignment with that or are we just settling for a much lower version of existence?

Healing is happening. It is different for all of us. It will take as long as it takes.  But if we find a way to trust the process, this old paradigm may birth a new world for us all.⁣

My sincere wish is that you illuminate and greet the miracles meant for you.  

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Pathway of the Awakened Life

I wish I could show you when you are

 lonely or are in darkness the astonishing light 

of your own being.

 -HAFIZ

 

You are not alone if you are feeling lost, scared, confused and exhausted in the world today.

We have been squeezed and pressed to our breaking points for prolonged periods of time and in so many ways.

The pressure is dense and painful. The trauma is palpable in ourselves, and in one another.

With the collective stress and anxiety we’ve all experienced in one way or another over these past years, it’s no wonder the majority suffer from dis-regulated and overtaxed nervous systems.

I want to acknowledge the pain and suffering you are feeling. It is real and it is valid. And, it is your responsibility and opportunity to heal and transform it.

One of the deep ethos I live by and practice from is – ‘A problem is not the true problem rather, what matters most is how we orient ourselves to the problem.’

Certainly, the circumstances of your pain matters, but what matters more than the details is the process you apply to these trials. 

In other words, your life is what you choose to do in response to your challenge, tragedy or upheaval. 

These choices define our quality of life and wellbeing and ultimately communicate our energy signature and values to the world around us.

And so our life is.

That’s why I practice from a lens of opportunity and ownership. An eagle’s perspective greets the torment and torture we are in, but ultimately rises beyond the limitation to a higher altitude.  

Any real growth is born from the paradigm of our empowered being. To move beyond distress and dis-ease, we need to truly witness the density of emotions and energy which are a natural part of our humanness.

We can then absorb the shift that will come in this allowing and tender self-witnessing. We may come to know that we always possess choice if we turn our gaze inward with clear sight.

Portal of light

The clearest pathway to our personal liberation will illuminate itself if we dare to listen and take conscious action. 

Who are you becoming? Does the expression of that align with your deepest desires? Are you operating from lack, fear, anger, impulse, or victimhood?

Our desires are a road map to the deepest longing of our highest selves. 

These are our virtues. 

It is prudent that you bravely explore your true desires and be willing to endure the longing as you consciously walk toward your true pleasures.

There may be a distance to walk, but this is the pathway of the awakened life.

Notice where you cling to your suffering. Where you actually choose to collude with it and therefore, draw it closer to you. 

Accepting what exists inside your reality not only allows you to understand what you are doing, but to see clearly it is not who you are.

You get to choose who you are when you come to understand that life does not happen to you, it happens through you.

This highly conscious work can be confronting and overwhelming.  

It is vital to commune with these internal disparate parts in order to walk toward our healing and transformation so that we may be a renewed source of healing and luminary for others.

It’s ok to ask for help. Through invitation and curiosity, you will find the guidance you seek.

If you are going through an initiation and descent currently, (which simply means that you are having a hard time and life is not in flow for you), remember you are being called to a higher space inside yourself. 

If you answer the call from your heart-center, I assure you, liberation and rewards await.

Above all else, it is most important for you to remember that no matter your circumstances or hardship, you do not have to navigate through any of it alone. 

It’s ok to feel what you feel and it’s ok to not feel ok. This space is in-fact the gateway to the unfolding and becoming. 

The way I practice is unique and pulls from both science and spirituality, and it’s not for everyone. That’s ok. This is elevated work which is indeed available to anyone who chooses to walk toward a peaceful, abundant, pleasure filled life. 

I am here to hold and support you in this way.  Click here to view my list of services or book a free clarity call.

Portal of Alchemy

 

What a potent time to be alive! 

We are in the midst of several deep portals of transition and transformation. It feels like a deep descent, a painful awakening, a profound transformation, a challenging restructuring, or a symbolic death or tower moment. 

I encourage you to have faith. All is perfectly unfolding; there is a Divine design to propel you into greater alignment with your cosmic destiny and Divine blueprint in this life. 

Have patience. Brace yourself for the alchemy. Soften into the gratitude for the storm and reward that awaits.

Have you noticed the signs?

 We are in Eclipse season (sudden, often shocking losses and gains, meant to realign your path), in the doorway of Samhain (the thinning of the veil between this world and the next), and the Autumnal equinox (emergence into the darkness and shadow matter within). 

 Medicine lives here for your highest good, even if it doesn’t feel like it. More is being revealed for your benefit.

You are being called forward.

How are you greeting these intense aspects? Are you in flow with the rhythms of the portal? Are you consciously witnessing the opportunity, and releasing your grip on the past? Are you embracing the new future?

At this time, we are being called to become still and silent, to rest in order to allow space for our greater vision to emerge. From here, the conscious next right action can take root.

This is a moment to descend into the darkness of the night and face our own inner darkness, feel our feelings deeply, and a place where we can connect to the numinous, ethereal space- the unseen truth.

Are you feeling the call to be released from your inner shadow material? Are you longing to restore yourself after trauma, heartbreak or betrayal? Are you ready to embrace your awakening?

We all have dreams for our life and our future — desires within us that feel significant and essential for living a life of purpose and pleasure.

Many of us suffer in silence, fear slowly strangling our passions and desire to make changes in our personal and professional lives.

Dreams of living our ideal life, doing fulfilling work, experiencing true intimacy in partnership, and achieving prosperity and abundance in our life become muted — but, in our heart, we know these dreams can be realized, yet we struggle to figure out how, and where to begin…

When we are feeling dispassionate, disconnected, foggy, or unmotivated this signals a loss of personal power.

Allow me to remind you to listen to the whispers of your heart. Do you need a container to be witnessed and truly held?

In using a combination of psychology, neuroscience and quantum shamanic journeying, you can regain your personal power. 

This integral approach will help you tap into the power and intelligence of your own True Nature, and with my guidance, I will show you how to wield this personal power to magnetize aligned desires and needs into your life and the lives of others. 

You’ll feel as though you’ve returned to your authentic self, with the promise you were born to realize.

When you are cut off from the truth of your essence, you don’t just fail to fulfill your potential, you experience many other side-effects. 

The challenges you may be facing in the other areas — health, work, relationships, prosperity — are often symptoms of a disconnection from this divine pattern in you.

An integrated, multidimensional approach is the greatest pathway to true transformation and healing.  Working with me as a guide, you will experience an internal shift, releasing deep imprints from the past. Then, your external world will begin to re-organize around you, as your “new” vision comes into focus. 

In this sacred container, you will be guided to step beyond your mind and emotions.

Are you ready to go deep and discover your unique, soulful, intelligent, and meaningful place in the world?

If you have ever thought…

  • I Can’t Stop Thinking About the Past
  • I Keep Repeating the Same Patterns
  • I Just Don’t Feel Whole
  • Why Am I Here? I Don’t Feel Like I Belong
  • There’s Got To Be More to Life…
  • I Long for Meaningful Relationships and Intimacy
  • I Can’t Remember Portions of My Childhood
  • I feel unfulfilled in every area of my life
  • My life is meant for more than this
My blended approach of traditional and holistic modalities may be what you need to reclaim your unique vision and recover your core strengths to put you on your path to personal empowerment.
 I am here to hold and support you in this way.  Click here to view my list of services or book a free clarity call.

Spiritual Psychology

 

With so much uncertainty in the world, it’s clear there is a great need for a more soul-centric approach to psychology; a multi-disciplinary, multi-dimensional way to heal oneself.

This is known as Spiritual Psychology.  

Spiritual Psychology is an inner transformation that provides an opportunity to merge with your highest Self; as a way to connect more deeply to your relationships and the world around you.

It delves into the path of uncovering the truth. The truth about the soul, cosmos, and nature.

 

Djembe Drum with Crystals and candles sitting on top

 

Transformation can be painful, but spirituality combined with traditional psychology softens the hard edges of the discomfort you may feel during this transformation.  It provides a depth and a breadth into healing in a more profound way; a quantum experience.

By approaching our healing in this way, we treat our wounds much more holistically and step into a conscious awareness.

Where traditional psychotherapy examines how challenges happen to or for you, spiritual psychology offers how challenges can be healed through you.  

It is an empowered stance where meaning and radical change are experienced.

 

It doesn’t interest me who you know

Or how you came to be here.

I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me 

And not shrink back.

-Oriah-

 

Are you ready to stand in the center of your own fire and not shrink back?

I would love to hold the container for you, a caldron for your growth and well-being.

Would you like guidance in uncovering your truth and healing your core wounds?  

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